Etiquette

Privacy & Discretion

Please place the donation in an unsealed envelope in a visible spot within the first 5-10 minutes of meeting. For public settings, you may discreetly hand it to me in a book, greeting card, or gift bag. Having to ask can ruin the mood, so feel free to point it out or excuse yourself to the restroom afterward.
For my safety and yours, screening before our first date is required for all new friends and is a way to ensure and confirm that you are who you say you are. For screening details, visit the contact page.
I prioritize your privacy with the highest level of discretion and respect. Everything that happens between, stays between us and is entirely confidential— no exceptions. I’m happy to formalize this commitment with a legal NDA if desired.

I don’t have a dedicated incall for friends in NYC, however I can arrange one for us if requested. Please do note, incalls in NYC please cover incall fee upfront -$200 or more depending on hotel preference. When touring I have Incall available without any extra fees.
Outcalls, I am able to meet at upscale hotels in the New York City area. If you are unable to put the room under your name, I am perfectly willing to help by putting it under mine. Please understand that you must accommodate all hotel expenses for our time together. When first meeting, I am unable to meet you at your residence.
I am a planner by nature and always prefer advance notice. Same-day and last-minute appointments are rarely possible, but if you email me with all your screening info right away, miracles can happen.

Discretion is nothing other than the sense of justice with respect to the sphere of the intimate contents of life. – Georg Simmel

Upon arrival, please ensure that you are showered and teeth freshly brushed, busy schedules sometimes get the best of us, and if you haven’t had a chance, you are more than welcome to freshen up onsite at the start of our date. Freshly washed hands are a must.
When meeting with you, I anticipate you to be a respectful gentleman – before, during, and after our time together. If I feel disrespected or my well-being is endangered at any time, I will cancel our date immediately without a refund.
If our connection is flowing and you find yourself wanting to spend more time together, feel free to ask me. If I don’t have any important commitments, I will be more than happy to spend more time with you. Of course, extended dates must be accommodated accordingly. If our date is running overtime, I will be bringing up the extension rate to you (1200 per hour).

Review Policy – For mine and your comfort and safety, I apply a strict No Review Policy. No one can feel comfortable and be completely themselves if they feel like they are being “evaluated”, right? I prefer keeping what happens between us to ourselves.